Many people think that the latest book phenom, 'Fifty Shades Of Grey' would only help to promote sexuality in women, but it might be having the exact opposite effect.

According to a new survey, now that erotic fiction is popular again, 44% of women prefer reading it versus actually HAVING sex.

43% say 'Fifty Shades Of Grey' made their sex lives seem routine and boring by comparison.  The most common complaints are that their own sex lives seem low energy, unimaginative, and stressful compared to the sex in the book.

This erotic fiction trend is still peaking with 68% of women say they plan to read more books like 'Fifty Shades Of Grey'.

In other words, the majority of women may have just discovered what guys like about porn so much.